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Weddings are one of many emotions; these are happiness, excitement, stress, worry, anxiety, nervousness, ecstatic joy etc. This indeed is a day that represents the joining two people in a bid to wish them luck on their journey of being together in life. However, having been to many cultural weddings you notice something similar at the end of each ceremony and that is the number of boxed presents left for the couple to take home – is the an age-old tradition or has the idea of giving wedding gifts only been around for a small length of time?
The same question can be applied to the idea of placing wedding favours on the table. I first came across these fancy netted bags of sugared almonds over ten years ago at the mere age of fourteen, when I had visited my first western wedding. I thought that the couple were extremely generous to have given us a wonderful banquet and great entertainment, but what was the point in these bags of sweets that had a thank you note amongst the content? It wasn’t until later on in the evening that I was told that they were favours – do they need a favour from us?
At least with wedding gifts, one understands that the purpose of buying them a present is a way of symbolising the joyous day and allowing the couple know that the guests appreciate the invite. Wedding gifts have been a tradition for many hundreds of years, dating back to the Royal family, where new queens or princesses were adorned with many fabulous jewellery and expensive gifts. Giving gifts is nothing new, as it represents someone’s generosity towards another.
These days couples can ask for no boxed gifts to be brought to the wedding, or to pre-select their choice of wedding gifts from a major retailer or from the internet as long as the items they have reserved have all been bought. This way there are no risks of receiving something that they will not use in years to come. These are usually ordered directly from the retailer or from the internet prior to the wedding.
Wedding favours however, are an unusual yet very common added touch to a wedding. Much like giving wedding gifts, these have been a tradition for many centuries dating back to the European aristocrats of Italy and France. These were known as bonboniere in French or bomboniere in Italian and were normally sent out before the wedding day. However, these were not exclusive to weddings, as they were distributed for birthdays and anniversaries as well and were packaged in small porcelain, metal, jewel stoned or crystal boxes.
As weddings were seen as a lucky blessing or a privilege, by giving out bonbonieres to guests, the couple felt that they were bestowing good luck upon their guests as well. The boxes would contain five pieces of candy or almonds that represented health, longevity, fertility, wealth and happiness. Later in the years the confectioners jumped on the distribution of almonds, dipping them in sugar and other sweet coatings turning them into a more modern and luxurious gift.
The Italians traditionally gave out chocolates, whereas the French would give out candies and sugared almonds. The Spanish guests would traditionally receive a small vase with orange blossoms, and the Dutch would receive five pieces of candy that represented wedding wishes which were otherwise known as bridal sugar.
These days favours are presented in a number of ways, largely in a more personalised manner coordinated with the theme of the wedding itself. Many couples now opt towards the more modern idea of marking the occasion with small signs of the occasion, or providing not just sweets but small gifts such as personalised candles, bottle openers, coasters, cakes etc.
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The Wedding Bells Are Ringing! Use These Tips For Yours!
Many of us have daydreamed about the day when we will walk down the aisle ever since childhood, right down to the gown we will wear, what our hair will look like, and the colors in our bouquet. Wedding planning can be thrilling but without help, it can be overwhelming.
Weddings are one of the more difficult things to plan during the course of your life. Make sure that before your wedding, you are extremely organized so you are in a great position when it comes time to decide on certain questions. This will give you the best opportunity for success.
Remember to consider how you would like the alcohol at your reception served, and how much it will cost. If there is one thing people like more than alcohol, it is free alcohol, and an open bar can quickly become a huge expense, especially the longer it remains open. Check with your venue to find out the alcohol options they have for you to choose from.
If something goes wrong on your wedding day, don't freak out! My cake fell over on the way to my ceremony, and both the best man and woman were unable to attend. In the end, those people are no longer in my life and my new best woman was a cake decorator who was able to fix the cake. It will always work out!
Think of an exotic location for your wedding to make it even more fun and memorable! You could hold your ceremony at a ranch and ride a white horse down the aisle, or have it at a wildlife preserve and have an animal bring the rings down the aisle. I wouldn't recommend choosing a turtle for that job, though!
If you are planning a wedding, consider keeping your guest list on the smaller side. You can save money by having not so many guests. You can show your small number of guests' greater details such as large gift baskets, large meals, and limo services. This can be paid for just by reducing your guest list.
Consider visiting a local park or museum to have your wedding photos taken. It's amazing to have a gorgeous background in your photographs, but sometimes your actual wedding location might not offer such a view. Contact your city's government office to see if you'll need a photography license for the location you choose.
Make sure that after your wedding you send thank-you notes to all of your guests for not only coming to your wedding but for the gifts that they gave to you. This will make them feel special and show that you appreciated them using their time to share your special moment.
If you're going to photograph a wedding, change up your style a few times. Look for angles you might not have shot from before to give the wedding album something unique and different to set it apart from the rest. Go up high or down load, shoot wide angles and tight.
Look around before committing to a photographer. You do not want to have someone taking wedding pictures that you are not pleased with. Look for online reviews to find great photographers.
Try to avoid being sick for your wedding! Up your intake of Vitamin C and eat only healthy items in the weeks leading up to the big day. Stay away from any foods that may cause stomach upset or gas as the last thing you want to do when you're standing at the front of the ceremony is be flatulent!
It is okay to let loose at your wedding reception. Many people take their wedding day too serious and do not remember it is supposed to be a joyous occasion. When this happens, they look back at their special day with unpleasant memories. Laugh with your guests, and dance to upbeat music.
Ensure that everyone coming to your destination wedding, knows exactly what to do and where to go when they get off the plane. Provide them with detailed instructions on how to get to the hotel and then, how to get from the hotel to your wedding location. They should also have help in heading home.
You do not have to be overwhelmed by the thought of planning your wedding once you use the tips you have just read. With the tips from above, you can handle planning your wedding and look forward to your big day.